29 9 / 2014
"You have taken the first steps in healing when you begin to understand that those who’ve hurt you in the past were functioning within their then level of consciousness, and could not have known or acted any differently - even if they did know, the mountainous burden of ego is too much to surmount for those who haven’t evolved beyond the mind of limitations and life-long conditioning. With this realization, you may perhaps begin to release the contempt and consequent pain you are carrying, and in time will exchange these feelings for compassion, and eventually…forgiveness which leads to freedom."
24 9 / 2014
You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her."
17 9 / 2014
"I wish somebody had told me that loving people, knowing how to love those people, and those people loving you back were three entirely different things."
14 9 / 2014
- date the kind of people who will still respect you when you no longer love them
- date the kind of people who will still respect you when they no longer love you
- do not waste your emotional capacities on people whose respect for you is conditional
11 9 / 2014
"Every human being alive has a right to say what they can and cannot do. Do you want to keep working, just to serve your shiny picture, without knowing what it all adds up to? Because I want to tell you something. You are a force to be reckoned with. You are laser sharp and you are on fire. That anxiety you feel isn’t about laziness; that’s the white-hot flame of a heart in chains. You were big and bright and raw and sensitive and sweet and you used to admit what you didn’t know, easily, without fear, and you know what happened? The world beat that shit out of you."