16 10 / 2014

babywinterlove:

Where the Wild Things Are pumpkin carving

<3 <3 <3

babywinterlove:

Where the Wild Things Are pumpkin carving

<3 <3 <3

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13 10 / 2014

"Stop apologizing to men for not wanting to sit with them, drink with them, dance with them, go home with them. You have not been put on this earth for their pleasure, their entertainment, to help them feel a little less lonely at night. If you do not want someone, are not interested in someone, don’t apologize. You do not have to be forgiven for the sake of someone else’s feelings. All you have to worry about is your own.

If you’re dating someone and they cheat on you with the girl sitting across them from the bar, or anyone for that matter, do not ask their name, why they did it, and if it was worth it. Just leave. Do not swear your revenge, or that you find the one who broke your relationship because the person who broke your trust is sitting right in front of you. The person who ruined what you had is the one who promised that they never would. Do not fixate yourself on what you should have or could have done, but what you will do, which is leave. You gave them a chance and now they can see it walk out the door.

You’re going to make mistakes and that’s inevitable, but what isn’t is making those same mistakes twice. You are supposed to learn from the pain, supposed to take it into your hands, hang it on your wall to remind yourself that you will never let it happen again. It’s hard stopping others from repeating their tragedies, but when it comes to your own, you are in control.

Love as many as you want. Kiss as many as you want. Fuck as many as you want. But when you do these things do it with all of you. Do it because you know it will show you something, help you with something, make sense of things. Never do a task that was assigned by someone else if you are not interested, not comfortable, unwilling. You can do anything you want to do as long as you know that there is only understanding and truth behind it. Never settle, never give in and never do anything that you don’t want to just because you feel bad.

Learn to say no. Learn to fight. Learn the difference between love and lust and learn to love yourself. If you love yourself, when you’re alone, you won’t need the presence of another just to make you feel at ease. You’ll have the power of healing in your very own body. You’re beautiful, remember that, write it down, scream it out loud and never forget. You have the entire world inside of your hands and the only thing you truly need to know to push through these trying times is that you can do anything. Now do it."

"Tips for girls who are still growing up," - Colleen Brown (via mostlyfiction)

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09 10 / 2014

callchelseaperetti:

luviosa:

The English language cannot full capture the depth and complexity of my thoughts, so I’m incorporating emoji into my speech to better express myself

👍✨👏👏👏👏👏👏

08 10 / 2014

"I love coffee. I sometimes get excited at night thinking of the coffee I’ll get to drink in the morning. Coffee is reason to wake up. There are other reasons, of course. But coffee is the incentive, at the very least."

Annie Clark (via sufjand)

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05 10 / 2014

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04 10 / 2014

daqueenbey:

Grown Woman (Final Version (Studio)) - Beyonce. 

FINALLLLYYYYY! <3 

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30 9 / 2014

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29 9 / 2014

"You have taken the first steps in healing when you begin to understand that those who’ve hurt you in the past were functioning within their then level of consciousness, and could not have known or acted any differently - even if they did know, the mountainous burden of ego is too much to surmount for those who haven’t evolved beyond the mind of limitations and life-long conditioning. With this realization, you may perhaps begin to release the contempt and consequent pain you are carrying, and in time will exchange these feelings for compassion, and eventually…forgiveness which leads to freedom."

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24 9 / 2014

"

You must learn her.

You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.

You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.

And, this is how you keep her.

"

Junot Díaz, This Is How You Lose Her (via waxenneat)

17 9 / 2014

"I wish somebody had told me that loving people, knowing how to love those people, and those people loving you back were three entirely different things."

Della Hicks-Wilson (via meditationsinwonderland)

(Source: psych-facts, via meditationsinwonderland)